Sunday, 13 December 2015

Can Materialistic Things Really Make Us Happy?

I was very upset a few days back and looking for something that can make me happy.

Being a woman the best solution I found is to go to the market and splurge money. No doubt I forgot about all my worries and got a peace of mind.

But for how long?

Is it really the solution for all problems? Can materialistic things really make us happy?

Suppose I buy a lavish phone and feel very happy; but for how long is this happiness going to stay?
Has happiness today just restricted to worldly pleasures and luxurious things?

What about our internal peace of mind?

Actually in this fast paced world and hectic lives, we are completely forgetting about true happiness. We just try to find it out in small things we can buy with money.

The reality is that we should spend money on real happiness and memorable life experiences which can bring a smile on our face whenever we think about them; not on the materialistic things.

Why, because in pursuit of inner happiness, our experiences are what matter more than just the material things like car, home, jewelry etc.
True Hapiness
Money Cannot Buy True Happiness

This is not something we are unaware of. We just don’t want to believe, because we don’t want to make efforts to find real happiness. We just look for momentary solutions and move ahead.
So the question is what should we do? Should we stop buying things?

No we shouldn’t; rather we can’t because it is also important for comfortable life.
But we should also take out time and make efforts to collect good experiences and memories.

Let’s take a simple example.

I went to dine out alone, I felt good but for how long?

Next time I went out with a group of my friends, we had lots of fun…. This I am going to remember forever. So, why can’t we take out time to spend with our friends? We have got so much busy in our lives that we manage with the materialistic things only. And every time the blame goes to shortage of time or the responsibilities.

Even this has been proved scientifically that buying expensive things can’t give us happiness, so why should we waste money.

Moreover materialistic things just make us greedy. You never feel satisfied. You buy latest model of any phone. Within months a new model will come in the market and you will start craving for that again. But the true happiness gives you inner satisfaction that stays forever.

So, the gist is that we should not run behind the material thing; we should try to preserve the moments, savor the pleasure and enjoy life to the fullest. Savoring every moment with family, friends and loved ones will bring a lasting smile on your face, which can never be measured by money.

Share your thoughts on how can we get true happiness and spread happiness.

Wednesday, 3 June 2015

When will crime against women stop?

Sometimes feel so helpless. When the hell will the day come when there will be no news of rape or crime against women. Today again read news of a village's surpunch raping a 2 years old girl. It's really disgusting. Now where are those ministers and lawyers who say females attract males by wearing short clothes, smiling at them and going out at night.

When will men understand importance and value of women and stop treating them like a sex object. I really don't know why the hell do some men show their superiority by committing such heinous crimes. And more thanks to our so called legal system that keeps treating these bas***ds like a special guest instead of killing them immediately.

The situation is so bad that a girl can't even dare to laugh openly if a group of boys standing in front of her. Faced the same situation few days back.

I went out for dinner with my husband. A group of boys sitting in front of us was using such bad abuses for mothers and sisters that I felt ashamed, but they felt so proud on it. Further, on noticing that I was uncomfortable the activities increased more. I was not even able to look up and felt so helpless. If I could, I would have slapped each of the boy from that group. But not possible because men are superior and have right to rape a female anywhere.

Don't know when the day will come when we will feel free like boys and be able to move freely. 

Monday, 8 December 2014

9 Things Which Can Give You Instant Happiness

Have you ever realized that on looking at a smiling kid, you can’t hold back your smile? No matter in which state of mind you are, you will definitely smile back. This is just an example. There are a number of other things or situations in life, which can give you instant happiness or at least a smile that can lighten your mood.

Here I am going to talk about some of these situations. One confession, these all are not only my thoughts. I took help of my friends and ask them about the things, which give them instant happiness. I just thought of sharing these with you, thinking these might help you too.

1. Very first in the list, as I mentioned above is the cute and adorable smile of a kid. 

2. Your childhood images will definitely make you smile and will take you back in those sweet childhood memories. 

3. If you are a pet lover, you will feel great to spend time with your pet. I just get delighted of thinking to meet my favorite pet on returning home. 

4. If you are a food lover, I bet you will feel glad to see your favorite food in front of you in situation when you can’t imagine of getting it in any condition. 

5. A sweet and unexpected message from your loved one can bring a broad smile on your face. 

6. An unexpected call from your best friend can refresh your mood immediately, giving you a great day ahead. 

7. A warm hug from loved one is enough to bring a cheerful and sweet smile on your face.

8. Praising someone. Talking good about others always makes you feel great and the cherry on the cake is the sweet smile you get in return.

9. Making others smile. You bring smile on someone’s face and you will feel highly happy and content inside. You can do anything for this from cracking a joke to helping someone.

Thursday, 7 November 2013

Tips to spread happiness

Spread Happiness
Happiness is a feeling and a state of mind filled with positive emotions. It is one of the things which everyone wants to have in his or her life. Life without happiness is considered to be empty and useless. Whatever we do in life is to achieve happiness. We live with family, do jobs, play favorite games and various other things, are done to just get happiness.

I wanted to ask one question to everyone. We always think of getting happiness, do we ever think of making other happy by spreading happiness all around us?

This is an art, which is present in almost every human being. We just need to realize this power. You must have met many people who are always happy and spread happiness all around them. Everyone loves to stay in company of these people who are full of life, energy and enthusiasm.

One of the most important things you need to remember is that you can make other happy when you are happy yourself. A pessimistic person can never make anyone happy. He will rather make a happy person unhappy with his demoralizing discussion. To be a happy person you should have healthy body and most important healthy mind.

Now you must be thinking you can do this? Have you thought of a situation when you share your good or some funny experience with someone, how happy the listener feels. So, spreading happiness is very simple and easy. Just share your joyful moments with your friends and family and make them happy.

Learn to celebrate your achievements, whether big or small, because it is a great medium to spread happiness among others. Happiness comes from doing something without any expectation of getting something in return. Sharing joy and happiness should also be done with the same feeling. When you make other happy, don't expect them to give you something in return. Bringing smile on someone's face is one of the best gifts you can give them and it costs you nothing.

A small tip in the end- If you can't do anything, just share a smile and see the happiness of other person's face. This is one expression which comes from heart. Like yawning, smile is also contagious. So, if you give someone a smile, you will definitely get a smile in return, which will make both of you happy.

So, be happy and make other happy!!

Saturday, 22 June 2013

Know How to Become A Happy Person

Every person in this world deserves happiness. Happiness has contagious effect, so you will find more people where happiness is there. But will it always come to us or we need to work to become happy? It’s our responsibility to work on our happiness and find sources and ways to feel happy and spread that happiness in our family, our community and in our society.

You must have met people who look happy most of the time. Are these people naturally happy or they are making efforts to bring that happiness in their life? Sometimes it can be there that they are lucky with an easy life, but it can’t be right every time. They people take particular steps and changes in their thinking and behavior to make their life happy.

Happiness is looking at the positive side of the world, spending quality time on happy things like reading some happy news, feel good news, learning something new.

Know here how you can become a happy person. Take these simple steps and notice the positive change in your life that will fill it with happiness.

Step One- Be ready for Happiness
Take your first step towards a happy life by making your mind that you really want to be happy. You desire to be happy is part of your efforts to feel the happiness. Once you have set your mind about finding happiness you will find many resources that make you feel good like inspirational videos, or some of your hobbies that make you happy.

Step two- OPTIMISM
Once you have made your mind, you will start looking at the things in positive sense and with an optimistic attitude. You can take help of different sources that tell you only about positive things happening in the world like positive news portals. Optimistic thinking can’t come in a day or two, it’s a result of your efforts towards bringing positive change in your behavior and thinking. Happy people recognize that their thinking is the foundation of an inspired process that leads to manifestation. By becoming optimistic, they give their life a direction that helps them make their dreams come true.

Step Three- Chase Your Happiness
Happiness can rarely be found by chance. Though sometimes you might find happiness in sudden situations or at unexpected places, but for this you should always be ready to chase the happiness. Don’t let the opportunity go from your hands. Always be ready to accept every happy moment coming towards you.
Happiness won’t come to you, until you pursue it. Go out, find happiness and enjoy your life happily.

While you may find happiness in unexpected places you must first open yourself to the possibility of happiness and prepare yourself to accept it when you find it. Some people are so miserable that they step right around happiness when they encounter. Don't let this happen to you. What is more, don't simply sit at home waiting for happiness to come knocking on your door. Go out and live life. Think about what currently makes you happy and spend time in those activities and think about what might make you happy and spend time experimenting. The more time you spend actively living your life then the more likely that you will also lead a happy life. 

Sunday, 24 March 2013

Tips to make your job interesting

Doing job is something which we can’t avoid, as to lead our life and to earn money we need to work. But the problem is that most of us take it as a compulsion and find it a boring task. Is it always true that a job or office is a boring place?

I don’t think so!!!!!!!

Up to a high level it depends on us, how we take our job and how we spend our time there. We just need to come out with some ideas and office will be an interesting place. This is something which I have tried myself and I want to share with everyone. Some of the tips which can help you enjoy your job include:

Plan your day in advance: It is always better to plan your day in advance and try to work according to that only. It not only helps your prioritize the things, but also helps you know how much you can do in a day.

Find company of likeminded people: If you spend time with people who have same thinking like you, it will be quite easy to spend time in office. It will also make your job interesting, as you can share your ideas with your friends and come up with new things to make your work interesting.

Stay away from negative people: You will always find some people who have negative thinking and they spread negative vibes all around. Try to stay away from these people.

Concentrate on achievements: Don’t waste your time thinking about the shortcomings, rather think about your achievements and try to do better than that. Keep learning new things and implement these at your work.

Work on your passion: Show your passion in your work, and work wonders. It will not only make your boss happy, but will also make you a star as if you focus on your passion it will improve your work.

Take out time for yourself: Work only as much you can do and take regular breaks. Working continuously for long hours might increase the productivity but might have negative impacts on the quality of your work. So, take care of your body too and take small breaks.

Make your workplace interesting: It’s in your hands to create an interesting workplace. Don’t get involved in gossips or discussions which can hamper your work or your position. Rather work with people who are interesting and with whom you can laugh and learn new things. 

Thursday, 17 January 2013

Let's help each other find the happiness

As I mentioned in my last blog happiness depends on us up to a certain level. Different people opt for various options to feel happy and delighted like some spend time with family, some like to move out with friends, some watch movies and so on and so more. Now I want your ideas to help people fill their life with happiness. You must be thinking how would you do that?

Nothing, you just have to tell me what do you do to feel the happiness around you. What makes you feel positive in opposite situations or what do you do to forget your problems? May be we come up with some amazing ideas and can feel the different world around us. Let's help each other find different ways to feel the happiness and positive energy spread around us.