“If the feelings are mutual, the effort will be equal.”
This is the mantra for success of any relationship; especially
when it is of a boyfriend and a girlfriend. They both need to have mutual
feelings for each other else it becomes a ‘half relationship’. But what happens
when the love story is one sided.
What if the other person is just playing with your feelings because
he knows that he is complete world for someone?
I haven’t personally gone through this but have closely seen
one of my friends going through such relationship. As this is story of my
friend, respecting their privacy I will not use their real names. Rather, I will
use imaginary names:
Priya was deeply in love with a Anmol but for him it was
just “Dost se Zyaada, Girlfriend/Boyfriend se kam”.
It was during college days, when the craze and charm for
love is at peak. Boys and girls meet, they spend time together and fall into
love. Priya haa a crush on Anmol and with involvement of some friends started
talking to him. Priya was from those extra ordinary students who always top in
the class. So Anmol took advantage of it and started chatting with her just to
get her help in exams and assignments.
The long chats took their relationship from friendship to
love and the goody-goody things started happening. Dates, movies, long drives
and gifts, everything was great for a few months.
But everything hasn’t been made for a happy ending. Everything
was great for a few weeks, but suddenly things changed. And the culprit was
social media. A few messages here and there and problems started arising, which
couldn’t be solved ever.
Later, Priya also realized that Anmol was just passing time
and was playing with her feelings for his personal benefit. From his habits to
family background and relationship, he lied about each and everything. Initially
she tried hard to save her drowning relationship, but ultimately she gave up
and planned to move on in her life.
Though a broken love is painful and upsetting, but if it is
with a wrong person, it is better to separate ways. This is what Priya did and
I would say it was for good as now she has found her true love who completes
her.
The upcoming movie “Half Girlfriend” wonderfully captures this
reality of life. Though this is just a movie, there are many people in real
life who have got stuck in such relationships where they just become “Dost se
Zyaada, Girlfriend/Boyfriend se kam”. They get stuck in one sided relationships
and end-up hurting themselves.
You can catch movie’s trailer here:
“I am sharing a Half relationship story at BlogAdda in
association with #HalfGirlfriend”
